Psychologist and pioneering self-compassion researcher Dr. Kristin Neff returns to the FitMind Podcast to explore how to work with shame, self-criticism, and difficult emotions in everyday life.
We discuss how supportive touch can help calm the body's threat response, why self-compassion supports performance without lowering standards, and how it helps us take responsibility and repair relationships. Kristin also explains what to do when compassionate self-talk feels unnatural and leads a short guided self-compassion practice.
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Explore Kristin's work: https://self-compassion.org
Our first conversation with Kristin: https://fitmind.org/podcast/science-of-self-compassion
Join Dr. Kristin Neff for a guided meditation and live Q&A at an upcoming online Gathering. Use code FitMind to attend at no cost.
Reserve your spot: https://self-compassion.org/gatherings-with-kristin-public-events/
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Show Notes
1:11 | Introduction to Dr. Kristin Neff
2:54 | Supportive Touch & the Body's Threat Response
5:41 | Unconscious Processing & Emotional Safety
8:28 | Understanding Shame & the Need to Be Loved
12:44 | Why Shame Narrows Our Perspective
15:38 | Self-Compassion, Motivation & Athletic Performance
20:38 | Separating Self-Worth From Performance
24:21 | Taking Responsibility & Making Amends
28:51 | Setting Boundaries With Compassion
31:05 | When Self-Compassion Feels Fake
34:54 | Naming Emotions & Shifting Perspective
37:31 | Guided Self-Compassion Break
42:46 | Why the Goal Isn't Always to Feel Better
44:57 | Nature, Connection & Compassionate Awareness
46:30 | A 20-Second Self-Compassion Practice
49:49 | Recommended Books & Building Self-Trust
