Awaken with Oliver Podcast

In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver sits down with Kenya K. Stevens – self‑proclaimed best love coach on the planet, love shaman, and divorce stopper – to radically rethink what marriage, relationships, and commitment really mean. Kenya shares her five foundational principles for a thriving partnership and explains why ownership, shame, and blame have no place in modern love.

Topics Discussed:

• The five base principles of a strong marriage: no shame and blame, no victims or villains, no cop‑outs or dropouts, purpose is growth (benefit is love), and “I create my life”
• Why open marriage won’t make you happy – but ownership‑based monogamy won’t either
• The three parts of the self: animal (feelings), ego (storyteller), higher self (solution‑finder)
• How to stop shaming and blaming your partner by recognising you’re looking at a reflection of yourself

Episode Highlights:

[00:00:03] – Kenya K. Stevens introduces herself: “I’m the best love coach on the planet. I stop divorces.”

[00:00:14] – How she stops divorces: changing the underpinnings of marriage – no more ownership of another human

[00:00:31] – Why an open marriage will not make anyone happy (and what actually works)

[00:01:52] – The five principles of Kenya’s own marriage: no shame, no blame, no victims, no villains, no cop‑outs, no dropouts

[00:02:55] – Oliver’s observation: 30‑year‑olds getting married, having kids, and becoming unhappy – they don’t even like each other anymore

[00:05:18] – The “up‑level” system: every challenge in your relationship is a reflection of yourself

[00:07:45] – Breaking down the animal, ego, and higher self

[00:09:30] – Can a submissive man become dominant again after years of being the “little bitch”?

[00:11:14] – The alpha woman who wants her man to lead but can’t stop leading herself – can she truly submit?

[00:12:32] – The pattern: a submissive husband often had a dominant mother

[00:13:04] – Polyamory and jealousy: why higher self solves jealousy, but ego never will

[00:14:25] – Humans are hardwired for community

[00:15:34] – The third option beyond animal urge and intellectual control: higher self

[00:16:22] – “It takes a village” – and why one person can never give you everything you need

[00:17:06] – When kids are involved: community becomes even more necessary, not less

[00:18:20] – 40‑60% marriage failure rate for 80 years

[00:20:15] – Oliver’s personal journey: polyamory or just searching for one real connection?

[00:22:53] – Kenya’s final message if she had one day left to live: “I’ve been here since the beginning of time. Death is not real. Live as if you are infinite.”

[00:23:18] – Kenya’s advice to Oliver: “Take my course. The paradigm shift will be unreal.”

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Raw, unedited conversations exploring healing, self-awareness, trauma, and personal growth.

Hosted by Oliver, who overcame Tourette’s, ADHD, and OCD through lifestyle changes and nervous system regulation, this podcast focuses on real, practical healing — not theory.

Each episode covers topics like emotional triggers, inner child healing, mindfulness, identity, and building resilience through honest, lived experience.

For anyone seeking clarity, emotional freedom, and deeper self-understanding.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/yeskingoliver
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In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver sits down with Rob Rene, founder of QE Strong, to explore the fascinating world of quantum energy, frequency healing, and the power of positive intention. Rob shares his journey from skeptic to believer, explaining how his natural health company helps people reduce pain, allergies, anxiety, and even brain fog – without drugs or side effects.

Topics Discussed:

• How quantum energy patches use frequency, intention, and Bible verses to relieve pain
• The hidden dangers of sleeping with your phone on charge next to your head
• Dr. Emoto’s rice experiment: how hate, love, and neglect physically change matter
• Why your body is made of energy and how cell-to-cell communication happens through vibration
• The difference between EMF blockers and health frequency patches
• The link between chronic pain, internal/external toxins, and getting back to balance
• Why meditation and belief systems are the original healing tools

Episode Highlights:

[00:00:04] – Rob Rene introduces himself and QE Strong: natural health solutions to help people get off big pharma drugs

[00:03:40] – The quantum energy pain relief patch: how a tiny sticker with frequency, intention, and Bible verses connects to your body’s energy system

[00:06:02] – Oliver’s EMF phone sticker and why charging your phone next to your head is dangerous

[00:07:55] – How the patch interrupts the pain signal from your body to your brain, smoothing out brain waves

[00:09:60] – Oliver’s childhood habit of sleeping with his phone on his pillow

[00:12:45] – The sad reality of families sitting in restaurants all on their phones instead of talking

[00:15:53] – The difference between EMF blockers and health frequency patches

[00:16:25] – Dr. Emoto’s rice experiment: love, hate, and neglect

[00:20:00] – A casino dealer’s testimonial: unable to lift her shoulder for 10 years – one patch changed everything

[00:22:55] – How the patches work on dogs with arthritis

[00:25:42] – Measuring brain waves with a Muse 2 device: pain levels drop within minutes of applying the patch

[00:28:04] – Does the patch replace your energy or add to it?

[00:30:57] – 14 different products: pain relief, allergy, anxiety, clarity and focus, sleep, and brain fog

[00:32:39] – Oliver’s hay fever: is his immune system overprotective

[00:34:25] – Why your mindset matters: if you believe it won’t work, it probably won’t

[00:36:00] – The observer effect in quantum physics: whoever observes last wins

[00:38:03] – Rob’s faith: God made our bodies wonderfully

[00:40:00] – Rob’s final message: Jesus is the way, and you can live an abundant life

[00:41:00] – Where to find Rob: I Am Pain Free podcast and QE Strong

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Raw, unedited conversations exploring healing, self-awareness, trauma, and personal growth.

Hosted by Oliver, who overcame Tourette’s, ADHD, and OCD through lifestyle changes and nervous system regulation, this podcast focuses on real, practical healing — not theory.

Each episode covers topics like emotional triggers, inner child healing, mindfulness, identity, and building resilience through honest, lived experience.

For anyone seeking clarity, emotional freedom, and deeper self-understanding.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/yeskingoliver
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliver
Download my FREE PDF — Take Control: http://www.talkwitholiver.com

Community for healers, lightworkers & conscious travellers:
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In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver is joined by Yhonet Garcia, a talented performer and healer, to discuss the transformative power of vulnerability, emotional healing, and creative self-expression. Together, they explore the importance of embracing your true self, facing fears, and finding strength in emotional release. Yhonet shares her personal journey of growth and how vulnerability can be a catalyst for both individual and collective healing.

They dive into the role of creative expression in reconnecting with our authentic selves, the importance of vulnerability in healing, and how difficult conversations and emotional release can empower us.

Topics Discussed:

•  The importance of creative expression and its role in reconnecting with our authentic selves
•  How vulnerability can lead to emotional release and serve as a powerful tool for personal breakthroughs
•  Overcoming the fear of judgment and criticism when sharing your creativity with others 
•  The emotional impact of protests and how they tap into a deeper sense of identity and belonging
•  The power of crying as a healing practice and how it can help us rebuild inner strength
•  Embracing discomfort in difficult conversations and the growth and understanding it can bring 

Episode Highlights:

• [00:04:09] - The importance of embracing the inner child and reconnecting with our true essence 
• [00:05:59] - How creative expression ties into self-worth and emotional growth 
• [00:09:14] - Vulnerability in singing online: How sharing your voice can lead to personal empowerment 
• [00:14:36] - Crying as a source of power: The emotional healing that comes from releasing tears 
• [00:19:40] - Empowerment through expressing desires and standing in your truth 
• [00:23:50] - Agreeing to disagree: How to find peace in differing perspectives 
• [00:27:04] - The importance of engaging with others through differing viewpoints
• [00:32:00] - Yhonet’s personal experience with conversations that foster emotional healing 
• [00:35:17] - The depth of meaningful conversations and their role in emotional healing 
• [00:39:29] - How challenging communication and ego can lead to growth 
• [00:45:06] - Soul expression through creativity: How music and art help us connect with our spiritual selves 

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Raw, unedited conversations exploring healing, self-awareness, trauma, and personal growth.

Hosted by Oliver, who overcame Tourette’s, ADHD, and OCD through lifestyle changes and nervous system regulation, this podcast focuses on real, practical healing — not theory.

Each episode covers topics like emotional triggers, inner child healing, mindfulness, identity, and building resilience through honest, lived experience.

For anyone seeking clarity, emotional freedom, and deeper self-understanding.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/yeskingoliver
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliver
Download my FREE PDF — Take Control: http://www.talkwitholiver.com

Community for healers, lightworkers & conscious travellers:
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In this episode , Oliver speaks with Shefali about the challenges of dating, the pressure of finding “the one,” and the importance of showing up authentically in relationships. They explore the pitfalls of seeking external validation in love and the transformative power of self-love and acceptance. Shefali shares her insights on how to align with the right partner, using the analogy of shopping for the perfect Gucci bag, and how continuous self-improvement can lead to more fulfilling connections.

Topics Discussed:

•  The challenges of dating and finding “the one” in today’s world 
•  The importance of authenticity in relationships and showing up as your true self 
•  The dangers of seeking external validation in relationships 
• Self-love and self-acceptance as the foundation for healthy connections 
•  The concept of alignment in relationships: attracting the right partner through self-alignment 
• Continuous self-improvement and its impact on creating fulfilling connections 
•  The importance of having a personal toolkit for emotional regulation and staying present

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00:00] - Intro: The challenges of modern dating and the pressure to find “the one” 
• [00:01:21] - The concept of alignment in dating: Why aligning with your true self attracts the right partner 
• [00:02:16] - Rethinking "The One": The dangers of putting pressure on finding the perfect person 
• [00:03:30] - Identifying key traits in potential partners: What to look for beyond surface-level attraction 
• [00:05:12] - The dilemma of continuous searching: How to balance personal growth with seeking connection 
• [00:07:36] - The reality of relationships: How love and partnership require continuous effort and authenticity 
• [00:12:06] - The dangers of hiding traits: Why pretending to be someone you're not harms long-term connection 
• [00:17:11] - The impact of ADHD on relationships: How ADHD can affect romantic connections and what to do about it 
• [00:19:49] - Embracing individuality: The importance of remaining true to yourself in relationships 
• [00:23:02] - The power of synchronicity: How the universe brings the right people at the right time 
• [00:37:02] - Finding joy in life: How embracing happiness on your own leads to healthier relationships 
• [00:38:30] - The power of simple joys: Why the little things matter in building authentic, joyful connections 

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Raw, unedited conversations exploring healing, self-awareness, trauma, and personal growth.

Hosted by Oliver, who overcame Tourette’s, ADHD, and OCD through lifestyle changes and nervous system regulation, this podcast focuses on real, practical healing — not theory.

Each episode covers topics like emotional triggers, inner child healing, mindfulness, identity, and building resilience through honest, lived experience.

For anyone seeking clarity, emotional freedom, and deeper self-understanding.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/yeskingoliver
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliver
Download my FREE PDF — Take Control: http://www.talkwitholiver.com

Community for healers, lightworkers & conscious travellers:
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In this enlightening episode, Oliver speaks with Parm, a seasoned yoga instructor, about the importance of self-regulation, listening to your body, and finding inner balance in a world increasingly overwhelmed by external stimuli. Together, they dive deep into the detrimental effects of constant social media consumption, the wisdom our bodies hold, and the transformative power of self-care practices like meditation, yoga, and breathwork.

They explore the societal impact of stress, the need for generational healing, and the individual responsibility we each have to foster positive change. This episode also emphasizes the importance of questioning societal norms and finding personal stability in chaotic times.

Key Topics:

•  The limitations of the mind’s desires vs. the body’s capacity and wisdom 
•  The negative effects of social media and constant stimulation on our nervous system
•  Detoxing from external noise and tuning into your body’s natural signals 
•  Practical strategies for self-regulation, including breathwork, yoga, and meditation
•  The link between stress, societal aggression, and the need for generational healing
•  The role of whistleblowers and individual responsibility in creating a healthier society 
•  The power of leading by example and creating local change
•  Respecting personal boundaries and learning to say no
•  How to address perfectionism and other emotional patterns through self-awareness
•  The impact of societal figures and the importance of internal stability in the face of external pressure 

Episode Highlights:

•  [00:00:00] - Intro: The power of self-regulation in today’s world 
•  [00:00:26] - Taking responsibility for emotions and actions 
•  [00:04:42] - The role of mental noise in self-regulation
•  [00:07:07] - Emotional overload and its impact on the body 
•  [00:11:54] - Practical self-regulation practices: Yoga, meditation, breathwork 
•  [00:16:12] - The youth’s role in social change and activism 
•  [00:19:11] - The impact of online culture on mental health 
•  [00:24:29] - Whistleblowers and accountability in society 
•  [00:30:31] - Breaking generational cycles of stress and trauma 
•  [00:39:30] - The importance of internal stability amidst external chaos 
•  [00:42:21] - Free stress management guide for listeners 

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Raw, unedited conversations exploring healing, self-awareness, trauma, and personal growth.

Hosted by Oliver, who overcame Tourette’s, ADHD, and OCD through lifestyle changes and nervous system regulation, this podcast focuses on real, practical healing — not theory.

Each episode covers topics like emotional triggers, inner child healing, mindfulness, identity, and building resilience through honest, lived experience.

For anyone seeking clarity, emotional freedom, and deeper self-understanding.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/yeskingoliver
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliver
Download my FREE PDF — Take Control: http://www.talkwitholiver.com

Community for healers, lightworkers & conscious travellers:
Connect, exchange services, plan journeys, list retreats, discover festivals, and share your work:

https://www.findmytribe.org