Sex With Emily

I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner.
We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.”
In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why being single isn’t a “waiting room”—it’s a destination for confidence, self-love, and incredible orgasms.

How to turn your solo pleasure game all the way up with masturbation, edging, and next-level orgasm hacks.

The secrets to emotional intimacy in the bedroom (even if your partner struggles with it).


Show Notes:

More Dr. Megan Stubbs: Website | Instagram | Twitter (X)


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There’s no such thing as an “easy life” which is why it’s SO important to develop the right tools to help you handle everyday chaos. Today, I’m talking with Tal Rabinowitz who’s helping people around the world learn to find calm in their daily commotion with her company The DEN Meditation.
She gives tips for beginners who’ve never tried calming their minds and shares how meditation can totally change your outlook on your relationship. We also talk about judgment, specifically how you can stop labeling everything as ‘bad’ or ‘good’ and simply let things be what they are. It’s 2025—and time to meditate, masturbate, and manifest for a better year.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How meditation can transform your relationship—See your partner clearly and stop the blame game.

Why chaos is personal—and powerful—Own it, don’t let it own you.

The magic of breath—Calm your mind, spark your pleasure.


Show Notes:

More Tal Rabinowitz & The DEN Meditation: Website | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Tal's Instagram 


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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.


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How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex itself? When you take the focus off the bedroom, and turn your focus toward adventure – the kind that gets your heart-pumping, your adrenaline going, and your anticipation building – a cool thing happens in your brain. You’re excited, and that excitement spills over from the activity into…sex. Pretty nifty, right?
So on today’s show, we’re going to trust, touch, and titillate our way towards arousal, with bonding hacks you can use on your next date whether it is with a long term partner or someone new. Plus, I take your questions! Ways to feel confident and sexual again after a breakup, how to have kinky sex with a partner who says they aren’t interested, how to decide if you should wait to develop a relationship with a super busy person or cut em’ loose, how to take sexy pictures with each other, and how to communicate your needs efficiently outside the bedroom so that you can reignite the spark when you’re back inside.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

Sexy bonding hacks that build trust, boost intimacy, and turn you on

How adrenaline-fueled dates like rock climbing or karaoke make you hotter for each other

The fix for mismatched kinks, low libido, and getting your sex life back on track


Show Notes:

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.


Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 


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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure


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Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship. 
We discuss how ‘dealbreakers’ may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark’ may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you’re not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why the spark is total BS—and what actually makes a relationship last

How your dating type (romanticizer, maximizer, or hesitator) is messing with your love life

The secret to making better choices in dating—so you can finally find your person


Show Notes:

More Logan Ury: Instagram | Twitter | Website


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Better sex starts in your gut—who knew? Microbiologist Kiran Krishnan joins me to break down the gut-sex connection, from how digestion impacts libido and orgasms to why stress and diet could be killing your pleasure.
We’ll get into what “leaky gut” actually is, how it messes with your hormones, and the simple, science-backed habits that will boost your energy, balance your body, and supercharge your sex life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How your gut health affects your sex life—from libido to orgasms and even erections.

Why stress wrecks your gut and lowers your desire (plus how to fix it).

Five simple gut-friendly habits to boost energy, balance hormones, and have better sex.


Show Notes:

More Kiran Krishnan: Instagram


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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.


Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 


SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure


Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube


Let’s text: Sign up here


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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com