We know what it takes to form perfect relationships thanks to the internet. Why ever get started before everything is ideal? I'll tell ya
We know what it takes to form perfect relationships thanks to the internet. Why ever get started before everything is ideal? I'll tell ya
Let's talk about love as a felt experience... and the way that the brain blocks it out.
some other tiny videos you might like:
Video dood on how the brain ruins relationships
Fighting to Heal! self development through (shitty, obnoxious, defensive) relational conflict
Mystical-type experiences for healing with psychedelics
And here's a longer post on fighting against this machine Trauma + Romance Revisited: FIGHTING for healing?
It's time for disaster dates! The TMFR Discord community, special guest Kim Kotschi (DarkpopSinger Somber Mercy), and yer ole host Jess share haunting stories of memorably bad meetups. Twist: Sometimes it's us (me) being the goblin in the night,.Then we rap unsolicited dating tips to tone down the terrors, even when your head's a bit haunted by relational trauma.
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So this Big S Self stuff actually comes down to "having feelings and using them." How mundane. In that case WHY IS IT so hard to find big S Self / spiritual stuff in Psychology? .... The influence of Behaviorism and the worst parts of man! Lez talk about Motivating Operations (the only suggestion that emotions/inner events matter), with the caveat that "actually emotions still don't count." Annnnnd git real about how this links up with free will / societal oppression.
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It's the shorty video version of the more detailed video just published!
So "spirituality" = knowing your Self from inside
And we just spoke about Psychology cutting both from the team per my education in Behavioral Science
Now here's that paper I told ya we wouldn't cover, because it was cooler than I thought. It's the peer-reviewed history of cutting emotions, beliefs, and needs out of Psychology... and why it needs to be put back in (their words)
MORE!!!!
Sister Post! Self repression in Psychology
Previous post! Self in Psychology Literature
All the crumbs leading up to this talk